Self-sabotaging often has a deep hold via our own inner-critic. What is important to know is that many people self-sabotage, meaning you are not alone.
"Everyone does something that is self-sabotaging once in a while. Smoking one last cigarette, over and over again, while you are trying to quit. Hitting that snooze button one too many times and being late for work. Yelling something insulting at your romantic partner during a fight - that always goes well, doesn't it?"
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